My 35-year-old son, who's labeled a "NEET" for staying holed up in his room, has been refusing to leave home for 20 years, isolating himself in a trash-filled space. I cook for him and tidy up his clothes, but one day, when I tried to clean up the room's garbage... our relationship crossed a line. Now, the only time we truly connect is during sex. Today, I'll be cleaning his room again.